Melissa Steffen Hoffman – Ludlow Ky, International stabbed me in the back! Melissa was friends for many years with the wife best friends . Her husband was best friends with the husband. She decided to carry on an affair and when it was finally exposed she admitted to it and has no remorse . In fact she’s breaking up a family and marriage of 18 years as well as her own. In texts she says she is getting a restraining order against the wife she wronged and that thebkids are on their own because he is all hers.